??xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?>18gay台湾男同亚洲男同,国产v亚洲v天堂a无,91亚洲自偷手机在线观看http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/category/15805.html记录我的成长Q留下我的q?/description>zh-cnSat, 21 Nov 2015 18:47:36 GMTSat, 21 Nov 2015 18:47:36 GMT60道法自然http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2011/05/04/349518.htmlcoffeecoffeeWed, 04 May 2011 09:57:00 GMThttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2011/05/04/349518.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/349518.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2011/05/04/349518.html#Feedback0http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/349518.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/349518.html

论古而今Q吾师不立文字,传万物不a之教Q出古今中外诸子癑֮。而中土之上,始有沛_z书而成易。易l,以前也有人叫它无字天书,可以说是中国W一书。写的全部是自然的变化。后世所书,从其h而言Q笔者所看,除了老子之外Q其他h都没有脱其框架。老子是另一部书Q后人更Ҏ看懂一些的书,我理解ؓZ。所以我理解中国理之经l,易经是Ş而上的,讲ȝ变化规律Q而诸子百Ӟ道、墨、儒、法、兵、释、上帝、伊斯兰{等各大Ӟ其实都是各自的道而已。正因ؓ如此Q诸子百Ӟ其实都是入世之哲学?p> 以道家论Q道家的_N是无为,而无为的目标是无所不ؓ。全书五千字Q基本上都是讲怎么h能做到无为的的方法,然后自然而然水到渠成的无所不ؓ了。可惜后辈徒子徒孙,在尊崇教MӞ因ؓ偶得而迷失在做到无ؓ的方法中Q忘了目标了。所以古语有云:信书不如无书?p>

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道法自然QhZؓ我师Q万物皆为我师?img src ="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/aggbug/349518.html" width = "1" height = "1" />

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胡言二三?/title><link>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2010/08/06/328142.html</link><dc:creator>coffee</dc:creator><author>coffee</author><pubDate>Fri, 06 Aug 2010 08:40:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2010/08/06/328142.html</guid><wfw:comment>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/328142.html</wfw:comment><comments>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2010/08/06/328142.html#Feedback</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/328142.html</wfw:commentRss><trackback:ping>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/328142.html</trackback:ping><description><![CDATA[一、考据 <p> 最q常思老家方言Q很是有韵味。记二语如下Q? <p> 1、俗话:三句好话当不得一马棒。翻译成普通话Q大概是说敬酒不吃吃|酒。但是,感觉“敬酒不吃吃|酒”却又没有如此Ş象生动。马棒Q是一U趋马奔跑的赉之物Q?9q在gu贝尔的那达慕赛马上见q,很粗Q打在马w上很疼。但是,记得q时的记忆力Q马是个E|之物,很难见到。但是怎么会有如此准确但是大家却又不熟悉的俗语呢?我想Q也许这句话透露出,可能是中原的游牧Q在战ؕ后逃到了大山里的缘故吧? <p> 2、汉戏。鲁q的C戏里,把搭台唱戏,描写得淋漓尽致。生zd湘西北农村的我,虽然晚生了几十近癑ֹQ但是小时对C戏的记忆却是一L。可惜不同的是,我们UC为汉戏。小时不怎么惌Z么会叫汉戏,长大了才惻I明明我们都是汉族子孙Qؓ什么管自己的戏叫汉戏呢Q这是个不太好解释的问题。作为日常用语,汉戏显易懂Q汉族之戏。如果最早生zdq里的h是汉族的话,应该不至于这么称呹{? <p> 所以,我大胆猜,生活在上马的先民Q应该是非汉族的Q与马有关的? <p> <p> 二,文明 <p> 看了龙应台的中国梦,其中有一D:衡量大国文明的尺度是Q看q个大国怎么对待弱势和少敎ͼ怎么包容不同意见。我惻Iq个不但能作Z个国家文明的度Q也一样可以作量h的文明程度的度Q看q个人怎么对待C会中强势的人,怎么对待C会中弱势的人,怎么对待表扬他的人,怎么对待批评他的人,怎么对待跟他持不同意见的人? <p> <p> 三,新文? <p> 最q读了胡适口q自传,其中有段描写新文化运动的Q也是白话q动的。我x文化q动除了有大家讲的那些功劳之外,其实也带来了很多负面的媄响? <p> 我认为白话在中国的文化史上应该是一直都有很重大的地位的吧。胡老先生说Q白话的发展Q应该是明清的白话本说开始的。但是我看诗l里的诗歌,都是白话写的吧。只是是古白话而已? <p> 此外Q现在的白话文运动,让现在受q高{教育的人,很大比例的完全看不懂文言文,也完全失M传统文化中的_N传承了。我惻Iq恐怕是胡老先生在搞这个活动之初,所没有惛_的了? <p> <p> 四,可? <p> 同样是说新文化运动。从1919q到现在Q?011q_92q光景,而我CP到我的上一辈的q年Q也已经不懂得繁体和文言文了。那么再回退50q_92-50=42q。三四十q的旉里,竟然完全颠覆了中国几千年的文化传l。我惻Iq是一U可怕的力量。也׃再对自己q时的那些家乡传l记忆现在已l荡然无存费解了? <img src ="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/aggbug/328142.html" width = "1" height = "1" /><br><br><div align=right><a style="text-decoration:none;" href="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/" target="_blank">coffee</a> 2010-08-06 16:40 <a href="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2010/08/06/328142.html#Feedback" target="_blank" style="text-decoration:none;">发表评论</a></div>]]></description></item><item><title>偶悟http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/12/24/307105.htmlcoffeecoffeeThu, 24 Dec 2009 01:31:00 GMThttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/12/24/307105.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/307105.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/12/24/307105.html#Feedback0http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/307105.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/307105.html上班路上Q寻思易中的理文化Q脑中蟩Z卦:

坤上乾下泰卦Q小往大来Q吉亨?

乾上坤下否卦Q否之匪人,不利Q君子贞Q大往来Q?

仔细思考,比较Q明白了q二卦在理中的意义?

泰卦Q坤上乾下,坤ؓ_乾ؓ阻I阴浊下沉Q阳清上,所以阴阳交泰而吉亨。主居上位者(理人员Q需要站在下位思考(即下属)Q以知道下层的真实情况;居下位者需要站在上位思考,以知道上位者的真实意图。这h能同心其力,而事半功倍?

否卦Q乾上坤下,坤ؓ_乾ؓ阻I阴浊下沉Q阳清上,所以阳生ؓ独阳Q阴下层为孤阴。正所谓独阳不长,孤阴不生。上位者不知道下位者的xQ下位者也不知道上位者的意图Q是以离心离P而分崩离析。故否之匪hQ不利?

偶得Q特CQ以被后查?

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观经l之典籍偶悟丰胸之秘http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/08/27/292794.htmlcoffeecoffeeThu, 27 Aug 2009 04:19:00 GMThttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/08/27/292794.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/292794.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/08/27/292794.html#Feedback0http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/292794.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/292794.html今读l络书,阅x胃经45I位Qƈ对照l络图以定其位|?

发现乳中Q^根二Iؓ胃经之穴Q其所在位|正好ؓ乳之关键部位?

遂思之Q其丰满E度是否与经l不畅有兟?

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H悟Q预丰胸Q先养胃Q同时伴之以推拿Q常推胃l之I位。则可光泽照人,也可自然丰满?

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?/title><link>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/03/23/261522.html</link><dc:creator>coffee</dc:creator><author>coffee</author><pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2009 06:34:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/03/23/261522.html</guid><wfw:comment>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/261522.html</wfw:comment><comments>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/03/23/261522.html#Feedback</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/261522.html</wfw:commentRss><trackback:ping>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/261522.html</trackback:ping><description><![CDATA[最q老受伤,w体部g老出障碍?br /><br />同事我去烧香拜佛?br /><br />我答曎ͼ佛在我心Q我心善则佛心善Q我心恶则佛心恶Q我心诚则佛心诚?img src ="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/aggbug/261522.html" width = "1" height = "1" /><br><br><div align=right><a style="text-decoration:none;" href="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/" target="_blank">coffee</a> 2009-03-23 14:34 <a href="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/03/23/261522.html#Feedback" target="_blank" style="text-decoration:none;">发表评论</a></div>]]></description></item><item><title>把n体和思想分开Q把当下当故事看?http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/03/23/261521.htmlcoffeecoffeeMon, 23 Mar 2009 06:32:00 GMThttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/03/23/261521.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/261521.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2009/03/23/261521.html#Feedback1http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/261521.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/261521.html
当n体充满苦难时Q把思想剥离w体Q让她去自由飞翔?br />当n体充满苦难时Q把思想和n体结合,让她L受生zȝ苦难?br />q就成了故事?br />
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天下万物自有~,何必强求使自怜?br />事事皆能随缘去,逍遥快活似神仙?br />


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理之:Z仁勇?/title><link>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2008/06/01/205131.html</link><dc:creator>coffee</dc:creator><author>coffee</author><pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 04:32:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2008/06/01/205131.html</guid><wfw:comment>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/205131.html</wfw:comment><comments>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2008/06/01/205131.html#Feedback</comments><slash:comments>1</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/205131.html</wfw:commentRss><trackback:ping>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/205131.html</trackback:ping><description><![CDATA[ <font color="#ff3300">原文为朋友整理。其中有其一如往的夸大之词。故比原文略有删减?/font> <br /> <br /> <br /> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" align="left"> <font color="#000000"> <font size="2"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">致好友书Q二Q?/span> </font> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" align="left"> <font color="#000000"> <font size="2"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; 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mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">Q?/span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">不厚道不t实</span> <span lang="EN-US"> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes">  </span>2</span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">Q每个东襉K有好与不好,知道它的好,研究它的不好Q才能避免于p|Q降低风险。其一乃源于他每每觉得向֜吹夸之,其二吾二人曾论道q,最后心悦之p?/span> </font> </font> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" align="left"> <font color="#000000"> <font size="2"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">酒逢知己千杯少Q论道正值心酣时。而谈C理Q坦a之,此正乃吾着手摸索之事,自然zx听?/span> <font face="宋体"> <span lang="EN-US">Coffee</span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">思维之严谨之深刻于其所a谈便得以淋漓致之体现。首先他提出一个不忘本行的观点Q也是技术本w:对不需要用到的技术,了解它能q嘛不能q嘛Q多从宏观上下功夫,不要q于U缠于细节。而这观点也是我工作一q多的心得,正着手改变的地方Q而培L的大大飞ȝU前际极力引导我要走向的方向。只是现在才是合适的旉Q瓜熟蒂落,来的Ҏ自然Q才有感触?/span> </font> </font> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt" align="left"> <font color="#000000"> <font size="2"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; 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mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri"> <span style="mso-list: Ignore"> <font face="宋体">4Q?/font> <span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </span> </span> </span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">勇,则是指勇敢,敢担当,果断而不犹U。该拍板的时候拍板,该承担责ȝ时候承担责仅R同时要把这U勇Q做为团队的_N贯穿?/span> </font> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt 36pt; TEXT-INDENT: -18pt; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1" align="left"> <font color="#000000"> <font size="2"> <span lang="EN-US" style="mso-fareast-font-family: Calibri; mso-bidi-font-family: Calibri"> <span style="mso-list: Ignore"> <font face="宋体">5Q?/font> <span style="FONT: 7pt 'Times New Roman'"> </span> </span> </span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">严,则是在工作中Q在l节上,在风险控制上Q在计划执行中,要严D求团队所有的人。这也是建立威信的基?/span> </font> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt 18pt" align="left"> <font color="#000000"> <font size="2"> <font face="宋体"> <span lang="EN-US"> <span style="mso-spacerun: yes">       </span> </span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; 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LINE-HEIGHT: 115%">?/span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">?/span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%">?/span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">?/span> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> <o:p> </o:p> </span> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt 18pt"> <font size="2"> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<o:p> </o:p></span> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt 18pt"> <font size="2"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">仁,勇,则在</span> <font face="宋体"> <span lang="EN-US">coffe</span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">之文</span> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">Q?/span> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'"> <a href="/coffee/archive/2007/11/05/158387.html"> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> <span lang="EN-US">我的理念</span> </span> </a> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'">Q内容如下:</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'"> <o:p> </o:p> </span> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt 18pt"> <font size="2"> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'">>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>><o:p> </o:p></span> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt 18pt"> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">q是说到现在公司面试的情况,当时我谈C自己对管理的看法Q我对管理的看法非常赞同<?xml:namespace prefix = st1 ns = "urn:schemas-microsoft-com:office:smarttags" /?><st1:personname w:st="on" productid="曾仕?>曾仕?/st1:personname>教授的说法,理是管物理人。管理最重要的一个事情就是安?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">何谓安呢Q那是Q?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">一、让领导安心Q放心。随时汇报领导所x的问题,让领D掌控他所x控的?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">二、让下属安心。下属只有安心了才能t实做事Q团队才能和谐共处。而怎样让下属放心呢Q不居功Q有担当Q功不抢、责不推Q不偏袒Q有胸襟Q助成长Q不压h?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">三、让客户安心。客h上帝Q只有上帝安心了Q子民才能安w。要让客户安心,必须以专业的能力、素养,以客L立场为客户出谋划{,而不是一味的说是或者点头?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">记得当时面试我的领导在听完我的上q观点后Q说了一句:不要听那些所谓的专家胡说八道。我当时哑然。不q今思之Q领导做事的风格实是不讲安的,所以搞Z搬家后我们部门h人思离的局面?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">不过q里姑且不论他对我的观点的看法,我在q里再补充一下我对安的另cȝ解?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">安字而言Q亦有另论。首先要知道何谓安:对大部分言Q安字就是安心,而对于另外一些h来说Q安字可能是挑战Q是新意。上面说了对普通h的,那么对于另类言Q则要以另类Ҏ来安之。这里以下属ZQ?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">一、对喜欢压力的hl他压力。有些h有压力的时候会变成另外一副样子。而没有压力的时候确实散漫得很的。要区分他是真散漫还是假散O?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">二、对喜欢承担的hl他责Q。有些h善于应对压力Q也是很难有事情能让他有压力。这Uh往往能力很强。所以要l他责QQ他承担责Q了就会约束自己,否则会恃才傲物?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">三、对喜欢忙碌的h不要让给他空闌Ӏh一旦空闲下来就会生事?/span> <font size="2"> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <br /> <br /> <br /> </span> <span style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">不过归根到底Q安字最重要的的一点就是尊重。否则一切都只能免谈?/span> <font size="2"> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-SIZE: 10pt; LINE-HEIGHT: 115%"> <o:p> </o:p> </span> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt 18pt"> <font size="2"> <span lang="EN-US" style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"><<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<o:p> </o:p></span> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt"> <font size="2"> <span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Calibri; mso-hansi-font-family: Calibri">在吾之文</span> <font face="宋体"> </font> <b> <span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-fareast-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt"> <a href="/crazycy/archive/2007/12/25/170199.html"> <span style="COLOR: black">crazycy 2007</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-bidi-font-family: 宋体"> <span lang="EN-US">q终结</span> </span> </a> </span> </b> <b> <span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt"> </span> </b> <span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">亦有所触及?/span> <span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"> <o:p> </o:p> </span> </font> </p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0cm 0cm 10pt"> <font size="2"> <span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">之外读霍ȝ的故事,颇有感慨Q不赘述Q}引用|址如下</span> <span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"> <a >http://baike.baidu.com/view/3129.htm</a> </span> <span style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-hansi-font-family: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold">?/span> </font> <span lang="EN-US" style="COLOR: black; FONT-FAMILY: 'Times New Roman'; mso-font-kerning: 18.0pt; mso-bidi-font-weight: bold"> <o:p> </o:p> </span> </p> <img src ="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/aggbug/205131.html" width = "1" height = "1" /><br><br><div align=right><a style="text-decoration:none;" href="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/" target="_blank">coffee</a> 2008-06-01 12:32 <a href="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2008/06/01/205131.html#Feedback" target="_blank" style="text-decoration:none;">发表评论</a></div>]]></description></item><item><title>诅R鬼谷子-捭阖一?/title><link>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2008/04/21/194457.html</link><dc:creator>coffee</dc:creator><author>coffee</author><pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2008 02:51:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2008/04/21/194457.html</guid><wfw:comment>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/194457.html</wfw:comment><comments>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2008/04/21/194457.html#Feedback</comments><slash:comments>3</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/194457.html</wfw:commentRss><trackback:ping>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/194457.html</trackback:ping><description><![CDATA[ <p>藏鬼谷子之书久矣Q而至今尚未读完。屡ȝ数页而偏废。今出差而返Q苦无家可归Q乃q广安门住?font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #fafcf8">其广安门之屋甚小Q仅一床一柜一桌耟뀂自此下班后l网而远之,仅以看三国,读闲书ؓ消遣?/font></p> <p> <font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #fafcf8"> </font> </p> <p> <font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #fafcf8">昨夜偶翻《鬼谷子》,仅见捭阖一之后有小注:“所谓捭阖者,既阴阛_闭之术也。引其意Q捭其心Q说其事、观其心是ؓ捭也。阖而虑其事Q察其情Q思其{,q而捭q。此谓之捭阖也。引蛇出z、打草惊蛇等皆ؓ捭,假痴不癫、隔岸观火皆谓阖也。”今复阅之,知某不读书久矣,乃重M?/font> </p> <p> <font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #fafcf8"> </font> </p> <p> <font style="BACKGROUND-COLOR: #fafcf8">所谓捭阖者,既阴阛_闭之术也。一阳一_一动一静,一正一奇,一正一反,一开一闭皆谓之捭阖。常听h_恋爱之术在若卌,光|之精在奇正相合,谈吐之要在听说相l,生活之道在张弛相生。由是观之,捭阖者,万物之大道也?/font> </p> <img src ="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/aggbug/194457.html" width = "1" height = "1" /><br><br><div align=right><a style="text-decoration:none;" href="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/" target="_blank">coffee</a> 2008-04-21 10:51 <a href="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2008/04/21/194457.html#Feedback" target="_blank" style="text-decoration:none;">发表评论</a></div>]]></description></item><item><title>我一直的思?--沈从文?lt;长河>题记》表辑־最清楚http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2007/12/29/171361.htmlcoffeecoffeeFri, 28 Dec 2007 16:03:00 GMThttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2007/12/29/171361.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/171361.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2007/12/29/171361.html#Feedback2http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/171361.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/171361.html表面上看来,事事物物自然有了极大q步Q试仔细注意注意Q便见出在变化中堕落势。最明显的事Q即农村C会所保有那点正直素朴的h情美Q几乎快要消失无余,代替而来的却是近二十q实际社会培L功的一U唯实唯利庸俗h生观。敬鬼神畏天命的q信固然已被常识所摧毁Q然后做人时的义利取舍是非L别也随同泯灭?

写那个“迷信非q信”其实也是惌达这个意思,可惜一直都是未完待l,{有旉了再补充完整?img src ="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/aggbug/171361.html" width = "1" height = "1" />

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我的理念http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2007/11/05/158387.htmlcoffeecoffeeMon, 05 Nov 2007 15:11:00 GMThttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2007/11/05/158387.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/158387.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2007/11/05/158387.html#Feedback4http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/158387.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/158387.html何谓安呢Q那是Q?br />
一、让领导安心Q放心。随时汇报领导所x的问题,让领D掌控他所x控的?br />
二、让下属安心。下属只有安心了才能t实做事Q团队才能和谐共处。而怎样让下属放心呢Q不居功Q有担当Q功不抢、责不推Q不偏袒Q有胸襟Q助成长Q不压h?br />
三、让客户安心。客h上帝Q只有上帝安心了Q子民才能安w。要让客户安心,必须以专业的能力、素养,以客L立场为客户出谋划{,而不是一味的说是或者点头?br />
记得当时面试我的领导在听完我的上q观点后Q说了一句:不要听那些所谓的专家胡说八道。我当时哑然。不q今思之Q领导做事的风格实是不讲安的,所以搞Z搬家后我们部门h人思离的局面?br />
不过q里姑且不论他对我的观点的看法,我在q里再补充一下我对安的另cȝ解?br />
安字而言Q亦有另论。首先要知道何谓安:对大部分言Q安字就是安心,而对于另外一些h来说Q安字可能是挑战Q是新意。上面说了对普通h的,那么对于另类言Q则要以另类Ҏ来安之。这里以下属ZQ?br />
一、对喜欢压力的hl他压力。有些h有压力的时候会变成另外一副样子。而没有压力的时候确实散漫得很的。要区分他是真散漫还是假散O?br />
二、对喜欢承担的hl他责Q。有些h善于应对压力Q也是很难有事情能让他有压力。这Uh往往能力很强。所以要l他责QQ他承担责Q了就会约束自己,否则会恃才傲物?br />
三、对喜欢忙碌的h不要让给他空闌Ӏh一旦空闲下来就会生事?br />

不过归根到底Q安字最重要的的一点就是尊重。否则一切都只能免谈?img src ="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/aggbug/158387.html" width = "1" height = "1" />

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天下大同----《墨子》感?/title><link>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2006/01/24/29067.html</link><dc:creator>coffee</dc:creator><author>coffee</author><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jan 2006 01:43:00 GMT</pubDate><guid>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2006/01/24/29067.html</guid><wfw:comment>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/29067.html</wfw:comment><comments>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2006/01/24/29067.html#Feedback</comments><slash:comments>0</slash:comments><wfw:commentRss>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/29067.html</wfw:commentRss><trackback:ping>http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/29067.html</trackback:ping><description><![CDATA[ <p>墨家一个很重要的思想是兼爱。墨子认为:如果每个人爱别h像p己,对待别h的家像对待自己的家Q对待别人的国就像自q国,则将天下太^Qh民富泰安店墨子的思想把我的思A带到了远古? </p> <p>我想Q也思h刚出现的时候,应该是个独居的动物,像人刚出生的时候一P谁也不认识,q个时候的人,只爱自己一个,而开始的男女之交Q也只是因ؓ动物本能。后来经q一D|O长的旉Q开始学会了爱,pq父母Q爱自己的另一半。这个时候的人,q母和pq另一半就像爱自己一P于是出现了家庭? </p> <p>又经q了一D|O长的旉Q因为家庭已l不能成为发展的MQ不能满生存的需要,于是需要多个家庭之间进行合作。而这时候,首先选择了有血~关pȝ其他家庭。彼此之间爱Ҏ的家庭就像爱自己的家庭,从而Ş成一个共同体。于是家族出C? 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W三式:c练好了W三式,可以写出自己的心?BR>W四式:忘。练好了W四式,可以改变别h的心?img src ="http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/aggbug/1841.html" width = "1" height = "1" />

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杂诗http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2005/01/21/524.htmlcoffeecoffeeFri, 21 Jan 2005 01:15:00 GMThttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2005/01/21/524.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/524.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/archive/2005/01/21/524.html#Feedback0http://www.tkk7.com/coffee/comments/commentRss/524.htmlhttp://www.tkk7.com/coffee/services/trackbacks/524.html打a?
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天下万物自由~,何必强求使自怜?
事事皆能随缘去,逍遥快活似神仙?/p>


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春风虽非M天,夏日炎炎是好眠;
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盼儿?

中秋圆月光失辉,

两泪涟涟盼子归?

男儿当有四方志,

功成名就自会回?/p>


端午思亲

又逢端午又见粽
此时不与别时?br />八仙桌前无h?br />四v为家信难?/p>

做于大一Ӟ是我W一q没有吃到我母亲包的_子



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